What is one thing you've learned from life?

I used to feel bad & aggressive that why people are saying like this just because he is handsome and can show his intelligence then one day he said , see people has nothing to do with our lives, they will talk nonsense anyway and for me you are the most beautiful girl in this whole universe, I am dam sure, you are perfect for me, No once can support me & encourage me like you do.

Never let others to ruin your self-respect.

Initially we were friends only but people used to say there is some chemistry between both of you. One of my friend said, Are you sure he is into you? because he is so handsome, he can get anyone (I was lean, brown skin tone girl that time, still I am dusky girl but because of physique now I look better). I felt multiple times that I am inferior to have him even though I am capable enough, independent and self respected girl, I started feeling under confident and because of that thought I used to fight with him over small issues by saying you don't love me, you can't.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Don't allow anybody to control your happiness.

Event : Our pre-wedding event

In this process I learnt do not let outsider to define your relationship and values, you know what capability you have.

What are some common lies that addicts may tell themselves?

Varsha Singh

Thanks for the crazy responses but I have seen people are judging without knowing the whole truth, he was with me, when I had nothing, today maybe I looks fine but long time back I used to not look good because I was under weight and I used to not do any care of skin. Below images spills the facts. We both have improved significantly physically, mentally and emotionally.

If you won't love yourself, how can you think others will love you?

If atheists are so positive that there is no God, where is their proof that He does not exist?

Me and my boyfriend are together since 2015 & now getting married next year. We love, respect and care for each other a lot. He is handsome and I am not that much beautiful but still he loves me whole-heartily and makes things special between us.

Never fight with loved ones just because of other's thought.